How well do you trust others? Do you have a problem trusting someone with information for fear that the information you share will be spread like a wildfire? Do you have any one that you can trust with some of your deep dark secrets? It's hard to find someone that you truly can trust with what makes you tick, who you really are but are afraid to let others see. I know how hard it is to truly trust someone. I am bad about trusting too quickly and boy have I had that turned around on me. I know that it is hard to trust the person that you are friends with, or the relationship partner you have, but let me just ask this question; how are you going to let that person into your life if you don't trust them with some of that information? It is hard, I understand that since I have learned not to let my full self show, and you never know what will happen. It is nice though to have someone that you can share some of your inner most secrets with so that you don't feel as though you are alone. Just make sure that you know that if you share yours, and the other person feels like they trust you, you may have some more secrets to carry for them. Just don't turn around and tell others about them, that is the big way that you lose someone's trust. If you do that, then how are they ever going to trust you again?
You should be able to trust your closest friends, just be careful what you say and how you say it.....
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